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  1. myyyk

    myyyk Sex Lover

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    This post aims to bring a scam into the light that you should probably be aware of, but at the same time, I don't really have any advice for you other than don't be a naive dumb ass when people ask for money. Also, I honestly don't know where else I would feel safe enough to talk about this experience, and I just want to get this off my chest.

    The events below started about one month ago when a cute black girl commented on some of my gifs, so I hit her up and talked to her for a little while. I got her snap easily and we were trading nudes for a couple days, just talking and vibing. She happened to live 2.5 hours away from me, and she was actively snap chatting me, sending me videos of her face and doing what I asked, even snapchat location showed her exactly where she said she was, and she was talking about coming to see me within a week or so, I was so excited, finally something legit.

    Not only that, it felt like were vibing really well, like really fucking well, I kinda liked her low key she was smart, funny, and replied INSTANTLY the whole time I knew her, and she knew how to calm me down. Of course, it was too good to be true. She told me a sob story about her being in poverty and that she needed gas money in order to make it to my city, $45 exactly which I gave up pretty easily. On that day she spent 6 hours convincing me that she was on her way, and during that drive, every possible thing that could go wrong went wrong. She had to go back to her city because her mom needed cash for her cancer medications that she was over due on, and once I sent her another $40 to get that cleared up, she pretended to be on her way for another 3 hours until I get a text about her getting into a car crash, which she expected me to pay $50 for the medical bills for... bullshit after bullshit. I made her clarify every detail about why she needs the money, I didn't give her an easy time, but I'm telling you she's a fucking professional. Once I realized that she scammed me, I went off on her and she admitted that it was a scam. I felt pissed and annoyed, but after sending over $100 I was honestly hoping that she genuinely needed the money for her mom, which of course, is how she made it seem.

    She seemed genuine about the issues with her mother and poverty, making me feel bad for her while playing into my altruism. When I showed concern for her mother, she called me a good person, she told me a bunch of things that were positive about me, just generally schmoozing me and being friendly. I can't believe I didn't see that as a red flag, but it was easy to see as pink when she was desperate for the money in my head, so I just gave it to her and wanted it to be fucking over.

    It seemed over for a while too, she swore to me that she would find a better way to make money as soon as possible and I wanted to believe her. She told me that she had scammed other guys on here, and that they were cheating on their wives, they were rich, shit like that to make me feel different from the other suckers. Her emotional manipulation was working, especially when she admitted that she was vibing with me, because that genuinely felt true from my end too, weirdly enough. I told her if she wants to be friends and try to turn this into a "good thing" I would forgive her and maybe something positive could come out of this, and that's exactly what she wanted to hear. I was being gaslit the whole time

    Looking back, it must've been easy to play off my loneliness, it was something I wasn't willing to entirely accept at the time, and on top of that I'm a forgiving person y'all, I didn't stand a chance. Over the course of a couple weeks she managed to find ways to get me to pay her another few rounds of $40-ish dollars, one time was even for a vibrator lmao fucking end me. To be honest I wanted to believe her bullshit way too bad, and that's what really terrifies the most about this scam because I didn't realize I could be that ignorant of a person. I was just talking to her one day and the next until next thing I know, she was too close to get rid of, we texted all the time every day and I felt like there was at least some strains of truth. I just let her leach off of me like a dumbass, and she knew what she was doing better than I want to admit.

    After a few weeks, I could tell she was losing patient with me, and the last time she managed to get money out of me she blocked me and that was the last time we talked, her walking away with over $300 total. Look, I really doubt any of y'all are this dumb okay, but I can't stress enough how convincing this woman was at a logical and emotional level. I'm a software developer, it's my job to write logic, and she made me feel like a fucking baby seagull IQ, made me feel more lonely than I had ever felt before, and more stupid. I don't beat myself up about it because it was a serious wake up call for me, but being scammed via genuine manipulation through this fucking website of all places, where I go to not deal with real world bullshit, that was something that I truly never expected and I hope none of y'all should have to deal with a scammer like that here or in general.

    Thanks for reading,
    mike
     
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    1. Ed Itor
      Give @StanleyOG its name so he can ban her arse
       
      Ed Itor, Sep 23, 2022
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      Red flag should have gone up as soon as she said she lived in poverty yet can pay for internet
       
      Braxton.B, Sep 24, 2022
    3. Volt_4
      Exactly
       
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  2. Firebrand486

    Firebrand486 Breeder of Roles

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    Dw dude. I know exactly the person you're talking about. I didn't give her a single penny though started asking for money for a sex toy, then it was her mother being ill, just got more and more contrived but always for 50 bucks. She tried to entice me with pics of videos allegedly of her, but I just saved them and ignored her.
     
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      I'm a man of practically.
       
      Firebrand486, Sep 23, 2022
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      Smart move
       
      Truthful 1, Sep 24, 2022
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  3. submissively speaking

    submissively speaking Sassochist

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    I’m really sorry that happened to you.
     
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  4. latecomer91364

    latecomer91364 Easily Distracte

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    Yeah, I'm sorry to hear about that.

    But dude... DUH!

    Seriously...
     
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    1. myyyk
      Honestly I'm right there with you lol I shake my head every time I think about it
       
      myyyk, Sep 23, 2022
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  5. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    I’m so sorry. People are assholes. I’m not even sure the police could do much.
     
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    1. hardlyfe
      Been there karma is the biggest bitch!
       
      hardlyfe, Sep 23, 2022
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    2. myyyk
      People are crazy, thanks for the kindness miss cherry
       
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    3. Truthful 1
      Did you report her , hell it might not have even been a her on hear . Could have. Been anyone on the net
       
      Truthful 1, Sep 24, 2022
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  6. Truthful 1

    Truthful 1 coal fired windmills Banned!

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    Girls are so beautiful even when you know you being take you sometimes still give them money .
    It’s a terrible person who take’s advantage of others
     
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  7. CS natureboy

    CS natureboy Porn Star

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    Dam! Live and learn.... Chalk that $300 up to experience and move on.

    You might want to give the mods a heads up on this person as well.
     
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  8. pipelayer87

    pipelayer87 Porno Junky

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    Bud, I’ve been scammed by a “female” to. I know exactly how you’re feeling. Some of them just know how to feed off of lonely guys. I’m not attractive at all, so when the opposite sex shows me some attention they have me hook, line, and sinker. I’m sorry you went through that. I wish you the best.
     
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  9. hornybigguy68

    hornybigguy68 Porn Star

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    That sucks to hear and understand your frustration.

    Have a family member who got a scammed within last year for 5 figures and it all started over being lonely.

    People can be shady in the world when it comes to money.
     
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    1. myyyk
      Thanks and I'm sorry to hear about your friend 5 figures is fucking steep but I could easily see that being me if I had more money, it's no joke. I hope he is less lonely now
       
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      Thanks, It was a family member who got sucked in thinking person for whom they are talking to was real but really wasn’t. Being lonely can be terrible thing but when money is envolved is where it ends. It hurt my immediately family and caused some divides. Lot of lying was happening during that time.
       
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    3. myyyk
      Wow, that sounds like an absolute nightmare, I can't even comprehend how a scammer does that much damage but I 100% believe it after this. There are some fucked up people out there man, glad your family members have moved past it now
       
      myyyk, Sep 23, 2022
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      Trust me it happens especially for older woman. We still have issues within family due to situation that happened. Most scammers are outside of US posing as someone else. It’s a shady as heck and it envolved being lonely.
       
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  10. naughtyguy4u

    naughtyguy4u Traveling Vaginal Dilator Therapist

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    OUCH!!!!

    You just got a $300 life lesson.

    A fool and his money are soon parted!
    Next time you won’t be so foolish.

    Most people get fucked in one form or another, but they are just to embarrassed to admit it.
     
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      Guys and cute girls are like dogs and skunks. They never learn to leave them alone.
       
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  11. slutwolf

    slutwolf Porn Star

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    Yep , you learned the lesson the hard way.

    This is not even a dating site , so to get sucked in here , really is getting sucked in big-time.

    The number one rule is :
    Do Not Send Money.

    There are other ways , and other avenues ,
    and
    if they won't go through those ,
    bye bye ,
    99.99% chance
    it's a scam.

    You only have to look around here a little bit to realise the place is infested with bullshitters , liers , and walkers ,
    not to mention com artists.

    Where else can you get a guaranteed formula and methods to make your cock bigger n fatter n longer ?

    Not in the real world
     
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  12. Sweetpassion

    Sweetpassion Pink gum drops.

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    Ughhh that bites! Sorry:(
     
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  13. Truthful 1

    Truthful 1 coal fired windmills Banned!

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    I’ve been getting scammed by beautiful women my whole life. . I be it’s cost me millions. And worth every dime lol
     
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      Correct. The Italian version. Hide the salami.
       
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      Haha sounds so romantic! :p
       
      Sweetpassion, Sep 24, 2022
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      Charmer is my middle name.
       
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      Flirty charmer! ;)
       
      Sweetpassion, Sep 25, 2022
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      Anything to get into your jocks.
       
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  14. Hopefullynow

    Hopefullynow Amateur

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    lol
     
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  15. speakeasy

    speakeasy Advocate

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    I'm trying to feel sympathetic, but I've seen too many guys on here falling for the spammers and scammers on porn sites.
    Do you know a lot of cute girls who offer to share nude videos and pictures with some random guy they started chatting with on a porn site, who weren't up to something?
    We know why you were interested. Did you ever ask yourself what she was getting out of it?
    After the first time she bailed, why didn't you offer to go to her instead of her coming to you?
    Have you ever heard "If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is."
    Sure, she admitted to scamming other guys, but you're different. She feels a connection with you.
    She didn't take advantage of your loneliness. She took advantage of your gullibility.
    I'll reimburse you the money you lost as soon as I get that check from the widow of the Nigerian Finance Minister who died in a horrible plane crash.
     
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      I don't think you're quite right but I like the points you're making. The fact is, someone more gullible than me could've probably walked away with less damage. I can be too trusting at times, you're right, but it's not because I'm gullible, it's because I felt a connection with her that she maintained the entire time, we talked all day every day she was basically my best friend for two weeks. She created the space for me to make that connection by abusing the fact that I wanted her to talk to me despite my lack of trust. She picked up on that and went all in, told me everything I wanted to hear, and it worked flawlessly. We all have weak and strong points, we can all be taken advantage of, stay safe out there man
       
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  16. myyyk

    myyyk Sex Lover

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    I appreciate the love and kind words, and those offering more wisdom, means a lot yall <3
     
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  17. patrioticcock93

    patrioticcock93 Porn Star

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    No need to be an ass, lesson learned
     
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      Anyone can be scammed, my nephew was & he's a cop in the fraud division.
      As he found out that the right story at the right time and you're a fish on the hook.
      Quite often it's peeps that think that they cannot be fooled that are.
       
      Ed Itor, Sep 23, 2022
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    3. speakeasy
      I'm not very trusting. Growing up, always being the smallest person in my class, I learned to question everyone's motive and keep my head on a swivel.
      It makes me sound paranoid, but I just don't trust most people. Especially people I only know from the internet and people who tell me what they think I want to hear.
      My Bullshit Detector is on 24/7
      Does that mean I can't be scammed? Of course not but it ain't gonna be easy and I don't forgive or forget.
       
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    5. speakeasy
      Well, maybe a little bit of an ass. :rolleyes:
       
      speakeasy, Sep 23, 2022
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    6. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      Depends - show me the "little bit of an ass" and I'll decide for myself. :cool1:
       
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  18. Mature Sexer

    Mature Sexer Lustful Gentleman

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    $300 is a cheap lesson! It could have been much, much more!
     
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  19. 1 Toy Maker

    1 Toy Maker Kuns og Kram Smukke Love once found never lost

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    Give us her name, I don't mind paying for good nudes and videos.
     
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      I want some free smaples first.
       
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  20. lethannain

    lethannain Newcumer Banned!

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    come to Onlyfans.com/existentialirony

    I dont mind supplying good nudes, and great videos!!! I like to play too, custom content in messages, but you can also see me play on posts!

    IMG_20220921_232940_HDR.jpg
     
    1. 1 Toy Maker
      Amazing. Do you have any references?
       
      1 Toy Maker, Sep 23, 2022
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    2. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      Wow, joined this morning at 1:27a and already banned. Morons abound.
       
    3. Jack Mine
      Posted this morning at 1:27a and joined on Mar. 11 2017 ;)
       
      Jack Mine, Sep 24, 2022
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